How to Talk to Little Girls

Things to remember as Madeline grows:

…[F]ifteen to eighteen percent of girls under twelve now wear mascara, eyeliner and lipstick regularly; eating disorders are up and self-esteem is down; and twenty-five percent of young American women would rather win America’s next top model than the Nobel Peace Prize. Even bright, successful college women say they’d rather be hot than smart. A Miami mom just died from cosmetic surgery, leaving behind two teenagers. This keeps happening, and it breaks my heart.

Teaching girls that their appearance is the first thing you notice tells them that looks are more important than anything. It sets them up for dieting at age 5 and foundation at age 11 and boob jobs at 17 and Botox at 23. As our cultural imperative for girls to be hot 24/7 has become the new normal, American women have become increasingly unhappy. What’s missing? A life of meaning, a life of ideas and reading books and being valued for our thoughts and accomplishments.

via How to Talk to Little Girls.

2 thoughts on “How to Talk to Little Girls

    • Thanks Katie — although this is not me, I excerpted from a blog 🙂 But as you say, these well-intended comments can have lasting detrimental effects on self-perception. I hope I can teach Madeline to value all components of herself.

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